谁解雇了谁(凯蒂功课案例).docx

1、Cleanse 3-25 我讨厌 John，因为他让我被解雇Katie：Ok, pleasures (pressures). What did you write?Ok.你写了什么？A woman: I wrote, I m angry with john ,because he got me fired.我写的是，我对 john 生气，因为他让我被解雇了。Katie: so john got you fired ,is that true?所以 john 解雇了你，那是真的吗？A woman: he fired me.他解雇了我。K : so he is the one that actua

2、lly said you are fired.所以他实际上对你说 你被解雇了？A : no.不是。K : so john got you fired ,is that true?所以 john 让你被解雇了，这是这真的吗？A: I think so.我认为是的。K : so lets xx than plate and come out with inside of you. You choose answer yes or no. john got you fired .让我们看看你内在的答案。你选择回答是或者不是。john 让你被解雇了？A : （打断凯蒂）I dont know.我不知道

3、。K : I dont know. You are not xxx. See if you can do another a little search in there. john got you fired. Is it true?我不知道。来看看你还能不能更深入的看看这个问题。john 让你被解雇了，这是真的吗？A: no不是。K : where did you get that ?你从哪里发现这个不？A : I got me fired.我让我被解雇了。K : give me an example.告诉我一个例子。A:because I didnt respect him.因为我不尊重

4、他。K : give me another example. what else?再告诉我一个例子。A : I didnt like him.我不喜欢他。K : and how did you let that show?那你会怎么表现出来呢？A :er 额K : how did you make sure that he knew that ?你会如何确保让他知道你不喜欢他呢？A : I pretended to listen to him我假装听他的话。K : so you didnt listen to him. Was he your supervisor?所以你不听他的话？他是你的主

5、管吗？A : by default .yes.默认的情况下，是的。K : and Was he your supervisor?他是你的主管吗？A : yes.是的K : are we funny ? by default .yes. 我们是不是很好笑？默认的情况下，是的。he was your supervisor. And you pretended to listen. which tells me ,according to you .he was your supervisor you didnt listen 他是你的主管。而就你告诉我的， 你不听他的。A : I didnt tr

6、ust him.我不信任他。K：and therefore you didnt listen?因此你就不听他的？A : right.对。K : you didnt listen. Can you find another example? How were you fired you ?你不听他的。你还能再找到一个例子吗？你是如何地让你被解雇了？A: en 嗯K：you didnt respect him . you didnt listen to him. You didnt trust him. It is not right or wrong, you know. We trust pe

7、ople or we dont.你不尊重他。你不听他的。你不信任他。你知道，我们信任或者不信任别人，是与对错无关的。A: I think it is right not trust him.我认为不信任他是对的。K: thats where Im with it. and we dont always keep our jobs when we are right.当我们对的时候，不一定总是能保住工作。How do you react when you think the thought he got me fired?相信这个念头，他让我被解雇了，你会有什么反应？A : I have no

8、faith in myself. 我无法相信自己。K: what else?还有吗？A : I dont take care of myself. I dont take care of my family.我不照顾自己，也不照顾家庭。K :how does that feel?那种感觉怎样？A : It feels horrible.感觉太可怕了。K : what would your life be like without the thought john got me fired?没有这个念头，你的生活是怎样的？A : it would be more powerful. I woul

9、d be more powered.会更有力量。我会更有力量。K : when people would say ,what happen to your job? I didnt trust my boss. I didnt listen to him. I didnt respect him .Of course , oh ,whatever, they fired me. And I want my job back. You want your job back?人们可能会说，你的工作怎么啦？ 额，我不信任我的老板。我不听他的。我不尊重他。当然，额，就是那么回事，反正，他们解雇我了。而

10、我想要回我的工作。你想要回你的工作吗？A : I want a different job.我想要别的工作。K : and I didnt like that job anyway . I want a different way. So they help me out .john help me out with what I couldnt do myself.哦，我不喜欢那份工作了。我想要别的工作。所以他们就帮我解脱了。john 帮我做了我自己做不到的事。A : thats true.是真的。K: or it is odd sometimes people like john he g

11、ives so little push .We dont like the job we have got. And we dont trust people 很奇怪。有时候人们会喜欢 john，因为他不给别人压力。我们不喜欢我们拥有的工作。我们不信任别人A: 打断 but I hate not having a job.但我真的很讨厌没有工作。K : I hear that. So lets turn the around.我听到你说了。我们来看看反转。A : I got me fired.我让我被解雇了。K : so examples. you didnt trust him. You d

12、idnt listen to him. You didnt respect him .any other examples of how you got you fired?嗯，例子就像你不信任他，你不听他的，你不尊重他，还有其他的你让你自己被解雇的例子吗？A : that seems like a lot.似乎有好多。K: it is .but it is so important .because it shows how you to not get fired to the next one.it is xxx.It will show you amazing ways to appl

13、y for jobs ,to get the jobs you want, to so much here. So much inside you that you already knows. and now it time to rest and do the work. Thats why people get fired. It is time out.so john got me fired .can you find another turn around? Try this one, I got john fired.的确很多。但它们很重要。因为那些例子告诉你如何不在下一份工作中

14、被解雇。它将向你展现那些令人惊讶的申请工作、得到你想要的工作的方式。在你的内在，你已经知道了很多。现在是时候停下来做做功课了。这就是为什么人会会被解雇的原因。做功课的时候到了。所以 john 让你被解雇了。你还能找到其他反转吗？试试这个，我让 john 被解雇了。A : I got john fired.我让 john 被解雇了，笑。K tell me about that.说说你是如何做的。A it is like a fantasy. I wish I could got him fired.听起来这纯属幻想，我倒是盼着我能解雇他。K and did you share with othe

15、r people that you didnt respect him?你有没有跟其他人分享你对 john 的不尊重呢？A yes有K like get someone fired? anything else? any other ways you try to got john fired? Consciously or unconsciously ?这像不像解雇某人呢？还有其他的吗？其他你让 john 被解雇的例子？不管是有意的还是无意的。A I spoke xxx我说 xxxK: that could get you fired or him fired? depend on who

16、is listening.en ,那会让你被解雇，或是他被解雇，取决于什么人听到了。A I believe happen for reason and I believe that he did me a favor. but I havent been able to get to the other side of it .because I havent been able to find another job.and it is taking as xxx on everything of my life. 我相信一切都有缘由，我相信他真的帮了我一个忙，但我真的无法看到事情的另一面。

17、因为我到现在还找不到一份新工作，而这简直毁了我生活的一切。K I see you have another job. and it is doing inquiry here right now. you know, If we have to have jobs to be free and happy .threres really something wrong .我看到你已经有一份新工作了。就是此刻在这儿做功课。你知道吗，如果我们不得不拥有一份工作才能得到自由和快乐，一定有一些事错了。A : thats what I met though.that is exactly what Im

18、 .但这就是我目前遭遇的，这就是我的境况。K: so lets try. this is an occupation. so with a job youre happy no matter who your boss is.and without the job . isnt that what you want the job for anyway,so you can be happy?让我们来试试吧。这才是一种职业。拥有一份工作，你会开心，无论你的老板是谁。而没有一份工作的时候呢，你拥有一份工作其实也只是为了开心，对吗？A yes是的K so lets be happy from wh

19、ere we are. whatever ways did you try to get them fired?那么就我们在此时此地立即开心起来吧。你还做了什么让他们被解雇？Did you mean in the workplace or talk about the men in the workplace?xxxx你有没有在办公室里说他们的坏话？A : I didnt tall about them in the workplace. I talked about them at home or . thats not true . I talked about them in the w

20、orkplace. 我没有在办公室里说他们的坏话。我只是在家说。额，不对，我的确有在办公室里说。K: Im so glad you found that.我很高兴你发现了这一点。K:thats how we get ourselves fired . it not right or wrong. it doesnt mean you are insane. it is not true. it is just one way for me to get me fired. so when Im fired, Im not shot. and I dont point other peopke for get me fired. of course Im fired.you tell me why you fired me or I match xxx. It is really important.那就是我们如何解雇自己的方式。这与对错无关。这并不意味着你疯了，那不是真的。这只是一种我解雇自己的方式。因此，当我被解雇的时候，我并不是被谁解雇了。我不会指责某人解雇了我。当然，我被解雇了，你告诉我为什么你会解雇我，或者我 xxxx。这真的很重要。