1、Spiritual Parenting:,A Family Network Program,灵性的养育,一个以家庭为网络的活动,Parents,“Are the guarantors of faith.They give children their first pictures of God and help them develop a wonderful Christian virtue called trust, which as they grow older becomes the basis for faith.” 是儿女信仰的担保人，是第一个把上帝的形象传给儿女的人，并帮助他们
2、发展基督徒美德，就是一颗信靠上帝的心。随着儿女的成长，这种美德就成了他们信仰的根基。,父母,Mother comfortable with faith talk.母亲常常与儿女谈论信仰问题。Enforces drug standards.家庭有使用药物的规范。Family worship is interesting and meaningful.家庭崇拜是有趣和有意义的。Parents strongly oppose adolescent alcohol use.父母坚决反对青少年喝含酒精的饮品。Loving, caring family.有爱心和关怀的家庭。Mother is highly
3、 religious.母亲是非常虔诚的信徒。Parents punish wrong behavior.儿女的行为不对，父母会惩罚。Frequent parent/child communication.父母经常与儿女沟通。Parents set limits.父母设定行为的界线。Father often talks to child about his faith.父亲常与孩子谈论自己的信仰。Frequent family helping projects.经常全家出动做义工（志工）活动,Research: Factors for Strong Families,调查结果：健康家庭的因素,N
4、urturing intentional family spirituality培育全家的属灵生命Strengthening family worship加强家庭崇拜Mentoring personal faith个人的信仰获得教益Understanding our heritage了解本身家庭的传统Facilitating faithful families培育忠心事主的家庭,Potential Dynamics in the Family,家庭潜在的动力,Intentional Spirituality,家人属灵的生命,What do you think about when you he
5、ar the word “religion?”,Spirituality focuses on a growing sense of a daily relationship with Jesus Christ as your Lord.,Spirituality is never done only in private, it involves community.,Spirituality,属灵生命,当你听到信仰这个词时，你会想到甚么,属灵生命就是你越来越感到需要每日与耶稣建立关系，承认祂是你的主。,我们不但在个人灵修中培育属灵生命，也要在社群中培育。,Spiritual life na
6、turally grows, as do the people in which it is experienced.属灵生命是自然成长，人也会随着所经历的属灵生命成长。,Spiritual life is a part of every stage of life 灵性生活要成为人生每个阶段的一部分。,The family is the place where God is first learned.家庭是儿女首先认识上帝的地方,Spirituality,(Eph. 4:11-16)以弗所书4:11-16,属灵生命,Key Dimensions to Intentional Spiritu
7、al Parenting,Make spirituality to be a focus and target for your family life 使属灵生命成为家庭生活的焦点和目标,#1 Make the choice todo something,属灵生命的主要范围,#1 决定行动,Provide提供:the community地方;the opportunity机会,environmentwhere Gods love can be felt一个感觉到上帝的爱的环境,#2 Provide opportunities for spiritual growth,#2 为灵命成长提供机会
8、,Develop action plans and make commitments to stick with those plans 把行动计划写出来，承诺要照着计划去行。,#3 Move your choices to action,#3 将你的决定化为行动,Establish patterns for spiritual life:为属灵生活建立一些模式：prayers before meals, at bedtime, and during times of trouble.饭前祈祷、睡前祈祷和在困境中祈祷church attendance & participation出席和参与教
9、会崇拜/活动family worship家庭崇拜,#4 Spirituality is not justa private matter, it isa family matter,#4 属灵的生命不仅是个人的事，也是家庭的事,Care for our spouses and parents.关心我们的配偶和父母Care for others around us: the sick, homeless, neighbors关心我们身边的人：病人、露宿者和邻居,#5 Relationships with others central and crucial,#5人际关系十分重要,Family W
10、orship,家庭崇拜,The Valuegenesis Project onFamily Worship,How often does your family have worship?,你的家庭有多少次崇拜聚会?Never从来没有 23% 26%Less than once a month一个月少于一次 13% 11%About once a month大概一个月一次 7% 6%About 2-3 times a month大概一个月两至三次 9% 8%About once a week大概一星期一次 16% 15%Several times a week一星期几次 11% 11%Once
11、 a day每日一次 15% 15% More than once a day每日多于一次 6% 8%,家庭崇拜之价值调查结果,#1 Make family worship short,sweet and simple,5-10 minutes preschoolers5-10 分钟 学前儿童15-20 minutes - primary age15-20 分钟 小学阶段儿童,Key Factors in CreativeFamily Worships,创意的家庭崇拜具备的要素,#1 时间短、有趣和简单,Start where the children live.从孩子熟悉的地方开始Use s
12、ignificant events at school, and at play.利用一些在学校、游乐场所发生的事为主题Use relevant life situations for spiritual lessons.利用合适的生活例证来带出属灵教训,#2 Make worship meaningful,#2 是一次有意义的崇拜,Habits are formed by repetition 不断重复做便成为习惯,#3 Make worship frequent,#4 Do shared worship,Share leadership轮流带领崇拜 Switch methods不同的带领方
13、法 Involve children给孩子参与,#3 使崇拜成为习惯,#4 人人有份参与,Study all your schedules to see what might work. 查看自己哪一段时间方便Build a schedule and begin to keep it.订一个时间表，并开始照时间表进行Better to do something once a week with meaning than to try to fit worships into an overly crowded schedule.只要家庭崇拜做得有意义，一星期一次都可以，不必在一周安排得密麻麻的
14、时间表内安排多次的家庭崇拜聚会。,#5 Find a regular time,#5 特定一段时间,Parental attitudes, actions, habits, priorities, speech, gestures, excitement, etc. reflect and teach children just what kind of a God they serve. 父母的态度、行为、习惯、谈吐、姿态、放在首位要做的事，热诚去做的事等，都反映着他们所侍奉和教导儿女去认识的上帝是一位怎样的上帝。,#6 Set an important example,#6 作个好榜样,P
15、rayer at mealtimes and bedtimes.饭前、睡前祈祷 Reading the Bible with the children at breakfast, supper or before bedtime. 在早餐、晚餐前和睡前与儿女一起读圣经 Develop your own personal devotional time. 有个人灵修的时间,#7 Use routine moments to see God,#7 利用平日来亲近上帝,Mentoring Personal Faith,个人的信仰获得教益,#1 Dont forget congenialrelatio
16、nships,#2 Use gentle reasoning,Key Factors in Mentoring Faith,个人信仰获得教益的要素,#1 家人之间要和谐共处,#2 用论据说服人心,#3 Dont forget faith-talk,#4 Study Gods word,#5 Communicate through agrace orientation,#6 Keep everything positive,#3 说有信心的话,#4 研究上帝的话语,#6 保持正面思想,#5以谦虚的态度彼此沟通,#7 Pray in your own words, Pray out loud wi
17、th children 与儿女一起开声向上帝祷告, Teach children different types of prayers: 教导儿女认识不同形式的祷告:* ACTS prayersACTS祷告模式 A adoration敬拜C confession认罪T thanksgiving 感恩S supplication/petition 恳求/祈求,#7 诚心祈祷, Natural times自然会祷告的时间: - leaving for school上课之前 - before driving somewhere驾车之前 - leave for overnight stay出外留宿之前
18、 - sickness生病 - birthdays生日,#8 Pray at regular and natural times,#8 在经常和自然会祈祷的时间内祷告,#9 Vary positions and locationsof prayer for the family,#10 Learn to care and share,#11 Encourage loveand compassion,#9 家庭祷告可以在不同的地方进行,#10 学习关怀和分享,#11 激发相爱和怜悯,Understanding OurHeritage,了解本身家庭的传统,Keys To Nurturing ASe
19、nse of History培养儿女对家族历史感兴趣的方法,#1 Teach your little story of faith and your family history,#2 Share the big story of faith,#1 讲述你信主的故事和家族的历史,#2 分享其他人信主的故事,#3 Share the heroes of faith with your kids,#4 Clarify doctrinalquestions,#3 讲述信心英雄的故事,#4 解释圣经要道的问题,#5 Spend time together learning your familys v
20、alues,Substance abuse standards 使用药物的规范,Way of life standards 生活方式的标准,* Popular cultural standards 接受新兴文化的标准,#5 把家庭的价值观传给下一代,Developing Family Spirituality,培育忠心事主的家庭,#1 Build Strong,Relationships,#1 建立稳固的,关系,#2 Know what your childrenare doing,#3 Know your childrens friends,#4 Help them make responsible choices,#2 知道你的儿女做甚么,#3 认识儿女的朋友,#4 帮助他们作负责任的决定,#5 Search for a spiritualcommunity whereyour family can thrive,#6 Start your familys journey now,#5 寻找一个助你家庭成长的教会,#6 现在就开始你的家庭养育灵命之旅,
