1、Complicityby Julian Barnes October 19, 2009 When I was a hiccupping boy, my mother would fetch the back-door key, pull my collar away from my neck, and slip the cold metal down my back. At the time, I took this to be a normal medicalor maternalprocedure. Only later did I wonder if the cure worked me
2、rely by creating a diversion, or whether, perhaps, there was some more clinical explanation, whether one sense could directly affect another. When I was a twenty-year-old, impossibly in love with a married woman who had no notion of my attachment and desire, I developed a skin condition whose name I
3、 no longer remember. My body turned scarlet from wrist to ankle, first itching beyond the power of calamine lotion, then lightly flaking, then fully peeling, until I had shed myself like some transmuting reptile. Bits of me fell into my shirt and trousers, into the bedclothes, onto the carpet. The o
4、nly parts that didnt burn and peel were my face, my hands and feet, and my groin. I didnt ask the doctor why this was the case, and I never told the woman of my love.When I divorced, my doctor friend, Ben, had me show him my hands. I asked if modern medicine was going back to palmistry, as well as t
5、o leeches; and, if so, whether astrology and magnetism and the theory of humors could be far behind. He replied that he could tell from the color of my hands and fingertips that I was drinking too much.Later, wondering if I had been duped into cutting down, I asked him if he had been joking, or gues
6、sing. He turned my hands palm uppermost, nodded in approval, and said that he would now look out for unattached female medics who might not find me too repugnant.The first time I met her was at a party of Bens; she had brought her mother. Have you watched mothers and daughters at parties together, a
7、nd tried to work out who is taking care of whom? The daughter giving Mum a bit of an outing, Mum watching for the sort of men her daughter attracts? Or both at the same time? Even if theyre playing at best friends, theres often an extra flicker of formality in the relationship. Disapproval either go
8、es unexpressed or is exaggerated, with a roll of the eye and a theatrical moue and a “She never takes any notice of me, anyway.”We were standing there, in a tight circle with a fourth person my memory has blanked out. She was opposite me, and her mother was on my left. I was trying to be myself, wha
9、tever that might be, and at the same time trying to make that self acceptable, if not actually pleasing. Pleasing to her mother, that is; I wasnt bold enough to try to please her directlyat least, not in company. I cant remember what we talked about, but it seemed to be going O.K.; perhaps the forgo
10、tten fourth helped. What I do remember was this: she had her right arm down by her side, and when she caught me looking in her general direction she inconspicuously made the smoking gestureyou know, the first two fingers extended and slightly parted, the other fingers and the thumb bent away out of
11、sight. I thought, A doctor who smokes, thats a good sign. While the conversation continued, I got out my packet of Marlboro Lights, and without lookingmy activity, too, was at waist levelextracted a single cigarette, returned the pack to my pocket, took the cigarette by the filter tip, passed it aro
12、und her mothers back, and felt it being taken from my fingers. Noting a slight pause on her part, I went back to my pocket, took out a book of matches, held it by the striking end, felt it being taken from my fingers, watched her light up, exhale, close the book of matches, then pass it back behind
13、her mother. I received it, delicately, by the same end as I had given it out.I should add that it was perfectly obvious to her mother what we were doing. But she didnt say anything, sigh, give a prim glance, or rebuke me for being a drug peddler. I instantly liked her for this, assuming that she app
14、roved of the complicity between me and her daughter. She could, I suppose, have been deliberately holding back for strategic reasons. But I didnt care, or, rather, didnt think to care, preferring to assume approval. But this isnt what I was trying to tell you. The point wasnt about her mum. The poin
15、t was those three moments when an object passed from one set of fingertips to another.That was the nearest I got to her that evening, and for weeks to come.Have you ever played that game where you sit in a circle and close your eyes, or are blindfolded, and have to guess what an object is just from
16、the feel of it? And then you pass it on and the next person has to guess? Or you keep your guesses to yourselves until youve all made up your minds, and then announce them at the same time?Ben claims that once, when he played it, a mozzarella cheese was passed around and three people guessed that it
17、 was a breast implant. That may just be medical students for you, but theres something about closing your eyes that makes you more vulnerable, or drives your imagination to the gothicespecially if the object being passed is soft and squishy. In all the times Ive played the game, the most successful
18、mystery item, the one guaranteed to freak somebody out, was a peeled lychee.Some years agoten, fifteen?I went to a production of “King Lear” played against a bare brick backdrop, with brutalistic staging. I cant remember who directed it, or who played the title role, but I do remember the blinding o
19、f Gloucester. This is usually done with the Earl pinioned and bent back over a chair. Cornwall says to his servants, “Fellows, hold the chair,” and then to Gloucester, “Upon these eyes of thine Ill set my foot.” One eye is put out, and Regan chillingly comments, “One side will mock another; the othe
20、r too.” Then, a moment later, the famous “Out, vile jelly!” and Gloucester is pulled upright, with stage gore dripping down his face.In the production I saw, the blinding was done offstage. I seem to remember Gloucesters legs flailing from one of the brick wings, though perhaps that is a later inven
21、tion. I do remember Gloucesters screams, and finding them all the more terrifying for being offstage: perhaps what you cant see frightens you more than what you can. And then, after the first eye was put out, it was lobbed onto the stage. In my memoryin my minds eyeI see it rolling down the rake, fa
22、intly glistening. More screams, and another eye was tossed from the wings.They wereyou guessedpeeled lychees. And then this happened: Cornwall, lanky and brutish, stamped back onstage, tracked down the lychees, and set his foot on Gloucesters eyes a second time.Another game, from back when I was a h
23、iccupping boy at primary school: In the morning break, we used to race model cars on the asphalt playground. They were about four inches long, made from cast metal, and had real rubber tires, which you could roll off the wheels if you felt like simulating a pit stop. They were painted in the bright
24、colors worn by the racing marques of the day: a scarlet Maserati, a green Vanwall, a blue . . . perhaps something French.The game was simple: the car that went the farthest won. You pressed your thumb down onto the middle of the long bonnet, pulling your fingers up into a loose fist, and then, at a
25、signal, transferred the pressure swiftly from a downward to a forward direction, sending your car off into the distance. There was a certain technique involved in obtaining maximum propulsion, the danger being that the knuckle of your middle finger, held a fraction of an inch above the playgrounds s
26、urface, would scrape against the asphalt, tearing skin and costing you the race. The wound would scab up, and youd have to adjust your hand, dropping the knuckle of the fourth finger into the danger area instead. But this never produced the same velocity, so you quickly went back to the usual, third
27、-finger technique, often ripping off the newly formed scab.Your parents never warn you about the right things, do they? Or perhaps they can warn you only about the immediate, local stuff. They bandage the knuckle of your right middle finger and warn against getting it infected. They explain about th
28、e dentist, and how the pain will wear off afterward. They teach you the highway codeat least, as it applies to junior pedestrians. My brother and I were once about to cross a road when our father put on a firm voice and instructed us to “pause on the curb.” We were at the age when a primitive unders
29、tanding of language is intersected by a kind of giddiness about its possibilities. We looked at each other, shouted, “Paws on the curb!,” then squatted down with our hands flat on the edge of the roadway. Our father thought this was very silly; no doubt he was already calculating how long the joke w
30、ould run.Nature warned us; our parents warned us. We understood about knuckle-scabbing and traffic. We learned to look out for loose carpet on the stairs, because Grandma had once nearly taken a tumble when one of her brass stair rods, removed for annual polishing, hadnt been replaced properly. We l
31、earned about thin ice, and frostbite, and evil boys who put pebbles and sometimes even razor blades into snowballsthough none of these warnings were ever justified by events. We learned about nettles and thistles, and how grass, which seemed such harmless stuff, could give you a sudden burn, like sa
32、ndpaper. We were warned about knives and scissors and the danger of the untied shoelace. We were warned about strange men who might try to lure us into cars or lorries, though it took us years to work out that “strange” did not mean “bizarre,” “hunchbacked,” “dribbling,” “goitered”or however we defi
33、ned strangenessbut merely “unknown to us.” We were warned about bad boys and, later, bad girls. An embarrassed science master warned us against V.D., misleadingly informing us that it was caused by “indiscriminate sexual intercourse.” We were warned about gluttony and sloth and letting down our scho
34、ol, about avarice and greed and letting down our family, about envy and wrath and letting down our country.We were never warned about heartbreak.I used the word “complicity” a bit ago. I like the word. To me, it indicates an unspoken understanding between two people, a kind of pre-sense, if you like
35、. The first hint that you may be suited, before the nervous trudgery of finding out whether you “share the same interests,” or have the same metabolism, or are sexually compatible, or both want children, or however it is that we argue consciously about our unconscious decisions. Later, looking back,
36、 we will fetishize and celebrate the first date, the first kiss, the first holiday together, but what really counts is what happened before this public story: that moment, more of pulse than of thought, which goes, Yes, perhaps her, and Yes, perhaps him.I tried to explain this to Ben, a few days aft
37、er his party. Ben is a crossword-doer, a dictionary lover, a pedant. He told me that “complicity” means a shared involvement in a crime or a sin or a nefarious act. It means planning to do something bad.I prefer to keep the term as I understand it. For me, it means planning to do something good. She
38、 and I were both free adults, capable of making our own decisions. And nobody plans to do anything bad at that moment, do they?We went to a film together. I had as yet no clear sense of her temperament and habits. Whether she was punctual or unpunctual, easygoing or quick-tempered, tolerant or sever
39、e, cheerful or depressive, sane or mad. That may sound like a crude way of putting it; besides, understanding another human being is hardly a matter of box-ticking, in which the answers stay the answers. Its perfectly possible to be cheerful and depressive, easygoing and quick-tempered. What I mean
40、is, I was still working out the default setting of her character.It was a cold December afternoon; we arrived at the cinema in separate cars, as she was on call and might be bleeped back in to the hospital. I sat there, watching the film yet equally alert to her reactions: a smile, silence, tears, a
41、 shrinking from violenceall would be like silent bleeps for my information. The heating in the cinema was underpowered, and as we sat there, elbow to elbow on the armrest, I found myself thinking outward from me to her. Sleeve of shirt, sweater, jacket, raincoat, pea jacket, jumperand then what? Not
42、hing more before flesh? So, six layers between us, or perhaps seven if she was wearing something with sleeves under her sweater.The film passed; her mobile didnt pulse; I liked the way she laughed. It was already dark when we got outside. We had walked halfway to our cars when she stopped and held u
43、p her left hand, palm toward me.“Look,” she said.I didnt know what I was meant to be looking for: proof of alcoholism, her line of life? I moved closer, and noticed, with the help of passing headlights, that the tips of her first, second, and third fingers had turned a pale-yellowish color.“Twenty y
44、ards without gloves,” she said. “It just happens like that.” She told me the name of the syndrome. It was a question of poor circulation, of the cold making the vessels constrict and cutting off the blood supply.She dug in her pockets for gloves: dark-brown ones, I remember. She pulled them on a lit
45、tle haphazardly, then meshed her fingers to push the wool down to the base of each finger. We walked on, discussing the film, paused, smiled, paused, parted; my car was parked ten yards beyond hers. As I was about to unlock my door, I realized that she was still standing on the pavement, looking dow
46、n. I gave her a few moments, decided that something was wrong, and walked back.“The car keys,” she said without looking up at me. There wasnt much light, and she was digging in her bag, feeling as much as looking for them. Then she added, with sudden violence, “Come on, you fool.”For a moment I thou
47、ght she was talking to me. Then I realized she was angry only with herself, embarrassed by herself, and the more embarrassed that her inability to find her keys and also, perhaps, her anger were being witnessed by me. But I was hardly going to dock her points. As I stood there, watching her struggle
48、, two things happened: I felt what I would describe as tenderness, were it not so ferocious; and my cock gave a sudden spurt of growth.I remembered the first time a dentist gave me an injection; he left the room while the anesthetic took effect, returned briskly, slid his finger into my mouth, ran i
49、t around the base of the tooth he was going to fill, and asked if I felt anything. I remembered the numbness that strikes when you sit too long with your legs crossed. I remembered stories of doctors pushing pins into a patients leg without the patient reacting at all.What I wanted to know was this: If I had been bolder, if I had raised my right hand against her left, laid palm gently against palm, finger against finger, in some lovers high five, and if I had then pressed the tips of my first, second, and third fingers against hers, would she
