1、优质文档优质文档Unit 1 FriendshipOn Making Friends来源:Z,xx,k.ComEveryone needs friend s, and if you fail to make friends, you should examine yourself an d see if there is something wro ng with your personality.Maybe you have social faults such as snobbishness, garrulity and using slan g, etc. which drive awa
2、y your new acquaintances. Whatever your social faults may be, look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them.To be friendly you must feel friendly. Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness. A cheerful people smiles. A smile is a magnet which draws people. Smi le at some one and you are
3、almost sure to get a smile in return .Try to remember name s. It makes your new acquaintances feel happy when you call them by their nam es. It gives them the feeling that they have made an impression o n you and that means something to them because you remember the m.来源:Zxxk.ComIf you dont agree wi
4、th other people on a cer t ain matter, you should appear to be friendly. Dont argue, but discuss. You always lose friends if you argue too much.A friendly pe rson thin ks of others, and doesnt insist on hi s own “rights“. People who refuse to think of others have few friends.Finall y, dont treat peo
5、ple only according to their socia l positi ons. Really frien dly people respecteveryone at all times. 来源:学,科 ,网 Z,X,X,K来源:学&科&网 Z&X&X&K来源:学,科 ,网 Z,X,X,K来源:学科网 ZXXK关于交友人人都需要朋友，若你在交朋友方面总是失败，就该反省自己，看看你的个性是否有什么问题。来源:Zxxk.Com或许你有些在社交上应该避讳的缺点，比如势利、饶舌、说脏话等，这些都会妨碍你结交新朋友。无论你有什么社交缺点，你都该正视它们，尽力摒弃。要友善，你一定要给人友好的感觉：快乐是友善的基础。一个快乐的人总会面带微笑。微笑好似有吸引力的磁铁，你对别人微笑，你也会得到他微笑的回报。来源:Z_xx_k.Com尽量记住人名。对新认识的朋友直呼其名会令他们很高兴，他们会觉得你对他有了一定的印象，这说明你记住了他们，这对他们很重要。来源:学科网 ZXXK若在某件事上你不能与别人达成一致意见，你该表现出友好。可以 讨论，但不要争吵。争吵过甚会使你失去朋友。友善之人常为他人考虑，不会为自己争取“权利” 。不顾及别人的人，他的朋友寥寥无几。最后，切勿以社会地位论人。真正的友善之人任何时候都尊重别人。来源:Zxxk.Com
