1、如何给人留下最好的第一印象？How to leave a good first impression ?Weve all blown first impressions before and were still standing. That means they arent important, right? Wrongo-mania.我们都曾搞砸过第一印象，但是我们现在仍然挺好的。这说明第一印象不重要，对吗?不对。First impressions often times set the stage for an entire relationship, or lack thereof,
2、and if you can learn how to master them youll start seeing better results all across the board.第一印象往往能够加倍设定整个关系的基调， 如果你能学习如何掌控它们，你会开始看到更好的结果。In your work life, personal life, even love life, first impressions separate the winners from the folks who talk about some day being winners. Here are 7 ways
3、make these crucial moments count.在你的工作生活、个人生活，甚至是爱情生活中，第一印象能把赢家和谈论自己以后成为赢家的人区分开。下面的这 7 种方式，能使你留下好的第一印象。This point one is #1 because its the first point of interaction, not to mention the most-commonly screwed up.这一点是最重要的，因为这是相互交流的起点，如果这都做不好， 更不用说最常见的搞砸了。And as Wikipedia notes, the greeting we choose
4、, combined with our physical presentation (#2) are the biggest contributors to the mental image we leave someone with.维基百科上面写道，我们选择的问候方式，和我 们的身体表达是给别人留下印象的最主要方式。Now, we all have that friend who manages to say too much when first meeting someone. He/she opens up into their relationship, pet, and fami
5、ly problems before the other part has muttered a “nice to meet you.”现在，我们都有第一次和他人见面就说很多话的朋友。他/她在对方刚说出“很高兴遇见你”之后就把他 /她的恋爱关系、宠物、家庭 问题 告诉对方。While there is a lot to be said for candid honesty and being passionate, this sort of greeting doesnt go too far in settings where youre being judged professionall
6、y or on some other merit.虽然坦率诚实、富有激情也很不错，但是 这种问候在别人对你职业上的判断或其他优点的判断上没什么好处。Instead, you odds are much safer with a greeting like “pleasures mine”. Then, let the other party do the talking. Its okay to plan this greeting in advance the key is to say less and by doing this convey a position of power wh
7、ile commanding respect.用像“很高兴 能为你效劳” 这样的问候，你的优势会更多一些。然后， 让对方来说话。提前想好问候语也没关系关键是少说， 通过这样做，表示地位并 赢得尊重。 contributor kntribjutvideo n. 贡献者；投稿者；捐助者 crucial kru:lvideo adj. 重要的；决定性的；定局的；决断的 passionate pnitvideo adj. 热情的； 热烈的，激昂的；易怒的 mutter mtvideo vi. 咕哝；喃喃自语 vt. 咕哝；抱怨地说；低声含糊地说 n. 咕哝；喃喃低语 screw skru:video vt. 旋， 拧 ；压榨； 强迫 n. 螺旋；螺丝钉 ；吝啬鬼 vi. 转动，拧 biggest bigistvideo adj. 最大的（ big 的最高 级） candid kndidvideo adj. 公正的；坦白的；率直的；偷拍的 honesty nistivideo n. 诚实，正直 merit meritvideo n. 优点，价 值；功 绩；功过 vt. 值得 vi. 应受报答 convey knveivideo vt. 传达；运输；让与推荐学习
